As a grown-ass adult, I love Elsa. And yes, part of it is very simple: she’s sexy.
Her long blonde hair is especially attractive when she lets it down. And with her hair down and that tight white dress… oh my god.
I would’ve given her brown eyes, just because I love brown eyes with blonde hair. But I get why hers are blue. It fits the ice, snow, winter, water — and it works.
Her blue dress is more elegant and classy. Then there’s the loose hair and white dress, and it goes from classy sexy to holy shit.
Her face — and honestly her whole body — is fucking sexy and cute at the same time. The eyes, the lips, her expressions, all of it.
Misunderstood
Everyone sees Elsa destroying things, running away, and isolating herself, but she’s really trying to protect everyone. She pushes people away because she thinks that’s safer.
I understand that. When you feel judged or misunderstood, sometimes it feels easier to back out and keep to yourself than try to explain what you meant. And the more misunderstood she feels, the more she isolates herself.
That’s probably one of the biggest reasons I connect with her. I understand why she reacts the way she does.
Isolation / fighting herself
Running away makes sense to me because it avoids confrontation. Being alone can feel safer, at least for a while.
But then you’re still stuck with the same problem. You can disappear somewhere else, but eventually you either have to deal with it or give up everything and start over.
Elsa spends a lot of time fighting herself too. She has all this power, but instead of figuring out how to use it, she’s afraid of it and keeps trying to hold it back. I understand how easy it is to get stuck thinking negatively when everything already feels like shit.
I’ve always had that weird contradiction of wanting people around and also not wanting anyone around. Wanting connection, but still wanting to be left alone.
And I think part of getting out of that isolation is being willing to see the good in people again instead of assuming the worst. At some point you have to open the door a little, even if that feels harder than just keeping it shut.